經典好書重點摘要:The Top 10 Rules for Success

最後更新日期:2023年03月03日

和優秀的人待在一起

是成為優秀的最佳方法之一


規則1:追隨你的熱情 “關鍵在於:你必須享受每天所做的事情。” — 比爾·蓋茨 找到你即使不被付錢也會做的事情。 你通過熱愛你所做的事情且追隨那個熱情而成為最好的。

規則2:自我意識 了解你擅長什麼,哪些方面你有像麥可·喬丹那樣的天賦,然後追求它,而不是嘗試做所有事情。

規則3:提高你的標準 “養成比你應得的更多付出的習慣。建立讓其他人以其為標準的習慣。不要走已有之路,而是走那些沒有路的地方,留下一條路。”(萊斯·布朗)

規則4:專注 停止跳來跳去的想法,只是專注。那就是魔力會發生的地方。

規則5:努力工作 看看你所仰慕的任何成功人士。他們付出了辛勤的工作才能取得成功。 釋放你的時間的目標是讓你可以利用現在多出來的時間專注於你的大目標並繼續努力工作。 永遠永遠。當你真正投入時,就沒有退休。

規則6:接受失敗 你必須失敗100次才能成功一次,這是其中的一部分。沒有人第一次就成功。我必須在早期教會自己,期望失敗,期望它,掩蓋它,歡迎它,這將會發生。但它不是一種永久的狀態。(席維斯·史特龍) 大多數人如此害怕失敗,以至於他們甚至不嘗試,這就是最大的失敗。 關鍵是只失敗一點點。 如果你失敗了,這意味著你正在嘗試某些事情。如果你繼續追隨你的熱情,專注並努力工作,最終你會找到一些重大的有效方法。但這僅僅來自行動。

規則7:忽略那些說三道四的人 “想一想,浪費在消極能量上的時間有多少,想著別人對你的看法。他們對你的看法真的沒有任何關係。關鍵在於你對自己的看法。”(鮑伯·普羅克特) 我們擔心在他人面前失敗。 如果你按照別人的期望生活,你永遠不會擁有你想要的成功。

規則8:建立團隊

規則9:模仿成功 如果你研究在你之前留下成功線索的人,他們可以為你實現使命的道路提供捷徑。 研究在你的行業中取得成功的人以及在行業之外的英雄。

規則10:相信自己

 


STEVE JOBS

Everything around you that you call life was made up by people that were no smarter than you.

Steve Jobs Summary

1.Don’t Sell Crap

2.Build a Great Team

3.Don’t Do if for the Money

4.Be Proud of Your Products

5.Marketing is About Values

6.Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish


TONY ROBBINS

You don’t always get your goals, but you always get your standards.

We live who we believe we are.

You’ve got to separate the vehicle from the outcome. What is it that’s going to truly fulfil you?

What is your gift?

What is an extraordinary life, on your terms, today?

Progress equals happiness.

If you can’t sell your business, if you don’t have an exit strategy, you have a job.

Success, by the way, is not some overnight event. It’s all these little things.

Activity without high levels of purpose is the drain of your fortune.

Tony Robbins Summary

1.Raise Your Standards

2.Progress Equals Happiness

3.Add Value

4.Have an Exit Strategy

5.Pay Attention to the Little Things

6.Look for Leverage

7.Change Your Mindset


SIMON SINEK

Deal with pressure by interpreting what your body is experiencing as excitement rather than nerves.

Joy comes not from comparison, but from advancement.

The things you say and do are symbols of who you are.

Passion is the feeling you have that you would probably do this for free and you can’t believe somebody pays you to do it.

Simon Sinek Summary

1.Train Your Mind

2.Be Patient

3.Take Accountability

4.Be Authentic

5.Find Your Passion

6.Start with Why


Bill Gates Summary

1.Overcome Your Fear of Risk

2.Always Be a Student

3.Work Hard

4.Enjoy What You Do

5.Be Fanatical

6.Ask For Advice

7.Don’t Procrastinate


ERIC THOMAS

What do you want? And then once you find out what you want, spend the rest of your natural life waking up and going after it.

There is no excuse for not living up to your fullest potential. No excuse.

You’ve never looked at yourself in the mirror and said you let you down.

You need to put yourself in punishment.

You need to start pointing fingers at yourself.

Your value system says you are a consumer and not a producer. And you’re spending more money than you’re making.

If you’re grinding six, seven days a week for a span of five or six years, something’s got to come out of that.

Eric Thomas Summary

1.Work on Your Gift

2.No Excuses

3.What is Your “Why”?

4.Succeed as Bad as You Want to Breathe


SADHGURU

Fear is happening because of excessive imagination.

The things that you fear, probably 99 of them never happened.

Sadhguru Summary

Don’t Set Incentives for Sickness


WARREN BUFFETT

Take the job you would take if you were independently wealthy. You are going to do well at it.

Warren Buffett Summary

1.Don’t Care What Others Think

2.Read, Read, Read

3.Schedule for Your Personality

4.Model Success

5.Give Unconditional Love


ROBERT KIYOSAKI

What FOCUS stands for is this: Follow One Course Until You’re Successful.

When I meet somebody who doesn’t have any money, it just means that they’re not giving something.

The discipline I had to get into was I was paying myself first.

Follow one course until you’re successful, and then keep doing it because once you find the way of being successful, you can do it again and again and again.

Robert Kiyosaki Summary

1.Give More, Receive More

2.Hard Times Bring Opportunities

3.Know What You’re Working For

4.Don’t Be Afraid of Losses

5.Stop Saving Money, Hedge It


JACK MA

The secret code for everybody is keep your dream alive because it might come true some day.

Where the opportunity is, is where the complaints are.

Jack Ma Summary

1.Get Used to Rejection

2.Keep Your Dream Alive


Oprah Winfrey Summary

1.Understand the Next Move

2.Work on Yourself

3.Run as Hard as You Can


LES BROWN

Accept conditions as they exist or take the responsibility to change them.

Someone’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality.

Les Brown Summary

1.Amaze Your Customers

2.Go All Out

3.Stay Busy

4.Give More Than You’re Paid For

5.Don’t Stop


Gary Vaynerchuk Summary

1.Execute Your Ideas

2.Don’t Overlook Storytelling

3.Do the Things That Matter


WAYNE DYER

Some of us hear a different drummer. We must march to the music that we hear.

Wayne Dyer Summary

1.Don’t Put Boundaries On You

2.Don’t Die With Your Music Still In You


WILL SMITH

Living in service. I feel that is the purest form of joy. Your life means something to somebody other than you.

The difference between depression and joy, I think is purpose.

Whatever it is that you love crazy, has to be the thing that you dedicate your life to.

If you stay ready you ain’t got to get ready.

Will Smith Summary

Don’t Chase Money


CONOR MCGREGOR

Gratitude is one of the strongest forms of power in attracting good things.

I carry on day by day already living the final goal.

Conor McGregor Summary

1.Love What You Do

2.Carry On

3.Have Courage to Speak Up

4.Prove Them Wrong

5.Think Outside the Box

6.Be Grateful

7.Have Heroes

8.Live Everyday Like a Champion


DONALD TRUMP

You have to love what you do. When you love what you do you, you work harder.

To be a winner you have to think like a winner.

Donald Trump Summary

1.Don’t Do it for the Money

2.Never Give Up

3.Love What You Do


ELON MUSK

Now is the time to take risk. Do something bold! You won’t regret it.

You have to prove yourself not wrong.

If you like what you’re doing, you think about it even when you’re not working.

If something’s important enough, you should try even if the problem outcome is failure.

Elon Musk Summary

1.Expect to Fail

2.Take a Risk

3.Do Something Important

4.Focus on Signal over Noise

5.Look for Problem Solvers


JORDAN BELFORT

If you can’t sell, if you can’t influence, if you can’t persuade, good luck trying to get your business off the ground.

Possess the ability to sell the vision to other people.

Jordan Belfort Summary

1.Learn to Sell

2.Be Honest With Yourself

3.Try Your Hardest


Mark Zuckerberg Summary

1.You Get What You Spend Your Time Doing

2.Start Small

3.Care the Most About It

4.Social Bonds Are Critical


JOE ROGAN

Difficult moments are what build your character.

Through difficult tasks, you learn an incredible amount about yourself.

One of the worst decisions a man can make is to be comfortable.

Sometimes we have to pull yourself up and you have to push forward even if you want to stay in bed.

A big part of success is just not being fucking lazy and just doing it. 90% of it is just showing up.

Joe Rogan Summary

1.Be the Hero of Your Own Movie

2.Be the Best Version of Yourself

3.Explore Difficult Tasks

4.Push Forward


BOB PROCTOR

Your purpose is why you get out of bed in the morning.

We should start to think, and build images in our mind, of what we’d like to do, and then set out and do it.

You should seek failures. If you’re playing it safe, you’re not going to win.

It’s by trying things that you figure out how far you can go.

If you’re not prepared to lose, you’re never going to win because you’re always playing it safe.

The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. (Joseph Campbell)

Act like the person you want to become.

Bob Proctor Summary

1.Seek Failures

2.Conquer Your Own Limitations

3.Don’t Worry About What Others Think of You


DENZEL WASHINGTON

To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.

You don’t have to compromise yourself. If it’s something you don’t feel good about, then don’t do it.

If you don’t feel like you should do it, then don’t do it. I think the most important decisions you could make is saying no.

Anything you want, good. You can have. So claim it. Work hard to get it. When you get it, reach back, pull someone else up.

Fall forward. Every failed experiment is one step closer to success.

Denzel Washington Summary

1.Ignore the Opinions of Others

2.Share Your Gift

2.Fall Forward

4.Know Your Priorities

5.Don’t Quit


ZIG ZIGLAR

The people who wait end up getting cooked. The rule is simple. You do it now. You do it now.

Commitment plays heavily in everything.

You’ve got to put something in before you can expect to get anything out. Isn’t it true that anything worth doing is worth doing poorly until you can learnt to do it well?

Zig Ziglar Summary

1.Think Like a Champion

2.Be Committed

3.Do it Right Now!

4.Keep Your Word

5.Evaluate Where You Are

6.Have Integrity


Dalai Lama Summary

1.Help Others

2.Don’t Care What Others Say

3.Pay Attention to Your Inner Values

4.Have Compassion

5.Be Determined

6.Develop Friendships


Tim Ferriss Summary

1.Be Able to Sell

2.Let Small Bad Things Happen


Nelson Mandela Summary

1.Prove Them Wrong

2.Demand Respect

3.Make Your Enemy Your Partner

4.Be Humble

5.Have Heroes

6.Lead From Behind


Morgan Freeman Summary

1.Build Word of Mouth

2.Be Courageous

3.Show Your Ability

4.Learn from Others

5.Hold On to Your Values

6.Keep Going


SYLVESTER STALLONE

It’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!

Fear is the fuel we use for overachievement.

Just roll the dice and say, ‘I’ve got to try it. Just do it. I may be totally wrong but I just believe in it.’

Sylvester Stallone Summary

1.Get it Done

2.Just Keep Going

3.Use Fear to Fuel You

4.Love Challenge


Tupac Shakur Summary

1.Search for Knowledge

2.Be a Real Model

3.Spark a Change in the World

4.Get Up and Keep Trying


SIR RICHARD BRANSON

Pick yourself up and start again. And if it doesn’t work at that time then keep going until you do succeed, and not to give up.

An entrepreneur is somebody who is great at conceiving ideas, starting ideas, building idea.

Create something to make a difference in other people’s lives.

Sir Richard Branson Summary

1.Keep it Simple

2.Give it a Try

3.Be a Leader

4.Treat People Well

5.Shake Things Up

6.People Will Be Skeptical


MARK CUBAN

Small businesses don’t fail for lack of capital. They fail for lack of brains. They fail for lack of effort. Most people just aren’t willing to put in the time to work smart.

Mark Cuban Summary

1.Now is the Time

2.Learn from History

3.Be Brutally Honest with Yourself

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